Whether you’re exploring solo pleasure or enhancing intimacy with a partner, sex toys can open up exciting new sensations and deepen your understanding of what turns you on. But if you’ve ever wondered, “What’s the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?”—you’re not alone. With thousands of options on the market, it helps to start with the basics. Below, you’ll find a straightforward guide to 13 of the most popular types of sex toys, what they do, and how they might fit your pleasure goals.
1. Cock Ring
A cock ring is worn at the base of the penis—and sometimes also around the testicles—to restrict blood flow and enhance erection strength and duration. Some cock rings vibrate, providing clitoral stimulation during penetration, making them a toy for both partners. They’re especially useful for those experiencing mild erectile issues or simply looking to intensify pleasure.
2. Clitoral Vibrator
Designed for external use, clitoral vibrators stimulate the clitoris with rhythmic vibrations. This category includes everything from compact bullet vibes to wand massagers. Since most people with vulvas need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm, these are a go-to toy for many.
3. G-Spot Vibrator
Curved for internal stimulation, G-spot vibrators are designed to hit the front wall of the vagina, often producing a deeper, more wave-like orgasm. Many users find the experience different from a clitoral orgasm, with more intense build-up and release.
4. Clitoris Sucker
These toys use suction or pulsating airwaves to mimic the sensation of oral stimulation on the clitoris. Brands like Womanizer and Satisfyer are known for their effectiveness in delivering fast, intense orgasms with minimal effort.
5. Dildo
Dildos are non-vibrating toys made for penetration. They come in a range of shapes, sizes, and materials—from realistic silicone models to colorful glass designs. Some people enjoy the simplicity of manual control and the variety of textures dildos offer.
6. Prostate Massager
Prostate massagers are designed for anal insertion and stimulate the prostate gland—often called the male G-spot. These toys can lead to powerful full-body orgasms and are great for people with penises seeking new dimensions of pleasure.
7. Butt Plug
Butt plugs are meant to be inserted and left in place, creating a feeling of fullness. They come in many sizes and shapes, with some featuring vibrations or textures. Butt plugs can enhance solo play or be worn during intercourse for added stimulation.
8. Masturbation Sleeve
These toys, sometimes known as strokers or Fleshlights, encase the penis and provide textured stimulation. Modern versions offer vibration, heating, suction, and even app-controlled features that mimic oral or anal sex.
9. Anal Beads
Connected beads are gradually inserted into the anus and pulled out, usually during orgasm, for a unique “popping” sensation. They’re popular in both solo and partnered play and offer an easy introduction to anal stimulation.
10. Teledildonics
Teledildonics refers to internet-connected toys that can be controlled remotely via apps. Ideal for long-distance couples, these gadgets allow one partner to control the other’s toy in real time, making physical distance feel less distant.
11. Floggers, Paddles, and Crops
Used in impact play, these tools vary in intensity. Floggers offer broad, stinging or thudding sensations depending on material. Paddles give a firm, blunt strike, while crops deliver sharp, targeted impact. Each adds unique dynamics to BDSM scenes.
12. Chastity Cage
Chastity cages are devices worn over the genitals to prevent erections and control release. Often used in power exchange dynamics, only the dominant partner holds the key, incorporating elements of orgasm denial and submission.
13. Sex Swing
Sex swings support the body and open up a range of gravity-defying positions. Options include door swings for small spaces, traditional two-strap swings, and full slings that suspend your entire body for comfort and support during play.
With this guide, you’re one step closer to discovering which toys might bring you the most joy. Remember, there’s no “right” way to explore—it’s all about consent, comfort, and curiosity. Whether you’re just starting or looking to spice up your routine, these tools can help you discover pleasure in ways you never imagined.
